Scorpio in love

If a Scorpio has fallen in love with you, rush out right away and invest in a fire extinguisher, then leave it within arm’s reach at all times. You’ll need it. Scorpios perform on a pulsating passionate plateau when they’re in love, and will smoulder and sizzle away until you’ll swear you can see smoke emanating from their ears. But don’t make the mistake of thinking that all Scorpio stands for is sex, because these people need a lot of love, too. It’s not exclusively a sign of rumpled sheets, but they will play a large part!

Scorpios can go at an affair hammer and tongs, but sometimes they push a relationship forward too fast and it becomes rather like a false growth in a plant. It will shoot up, bring forth the most beautiful bloom, and then keel over and collapse because it hasn’t got enough roots to support it and the same thing can happen to a Scorpio love-match, because it can be plunged into love’s hothouse and not given time to develop naturally. So go easy on the Baby Bio, Scorpio!

The Scorpio emotions are torrid, and the feelings are sensationally steamy provocative and volcanic. They can be so sexual that many Scorpios think they’re in love when actually they’re in lust, which of course is something quite different and that’s the first problem for most Scorpios to work out is it love they feel or is it purely a physical frisson! That may be why many Scorpios marry twice. Sex will have been the main attraction with the first partner, and then the couple will discover they have nothing in common, apart from that. But when wedding bells peal out the second time around, the marriage will be a mixture of sexual and mental attraction, and the couple will be able to have a good old chin-wag, when they’re not wagging other areas of their anatomies.

Scorpios will ferret out all the shortcomings in their first relationships, and then put those lessons they’ve learned into practice in the next nuptial. But there’s no getting away from the fact that this is an emotional sign, and a Scorpio in love has to have his or her passions, urges and surges assuaged. Love is so incredibly intense for Scorpios! Whereas most signs find they can love each other on a more day-to-day basis, the Scorpio will make a big thing about every minute. Some Scorpios can become overpoweringly jealous, imagining all sorts of ludicrous liaisons for their lovers, and putting their partners through real psychological wars at the same time.

Very often the emotional rapport will depend on the intensity with which the Scorpio drinks. Catalysts always play a very important part in a Scorpio’s life, and alcohol is often the trigger to spark off this very volatile sign.

If you are after a one-night stand with a Scorpio, you’ve got to flaunt yourself. But if you want more than that, you must be subtle, in a very sexy, sensual and self-confident way! Because this is such an enigmatic sign, it’s difficult to say how to get a long-term relationship with a Scorpio, but basically you have to be loyal, faithful, and where he or she wants you.

Scorpios like power, and won’t be delirious if you challenge them a lot and don’t make the mistake of thinking that you must fall into bed with a Scorpio immediately, because if you do, you will only degrade yourself in his or her eyes. However, there is no point in pretending that once you do climb between the sheets together that the physical side of your relationship won’t be important, because it will. In fact I would go so far as to say that if your physical needs don’t match, that could be grounds for divorce later. Never underestimate a Scorpio, in bed or out of it!