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Be honest with someone, even if the truth hurts their feelings. Telling lies will only betray their trust in the long run. Besides, it's not as though your pal is unaware of the problems that face them. They are just looking to have their feelings validated. Be prepared to lend a shoulder to cry on. A great day if you into sports get out an support or play the competitive game.
If you feel your career doesn't reflect your passions, look for other ways to express your creativity. Take up an artistic hobby. Gardening, restoring furniture or woodworking are all good forms of expression for you. Ignoring your creative side is killing your spirit. Something you see, read or hear today could be the inspiration for your next ambition or true vocation.
What you need is to travel far from it all. If you’re off on your vacation soon all well and good but if not consider an away day to acclimatise yourself beforehand. Working towards your goals is fine, but too much work and not enough play is dulling your mind. Take stock of your value system. Have you been living up to it recently? If not, why not? A break will provide the answers.
Although you appear self-reliant to the outside world, a large part of you needs to be validated by others. That's fine if you surround yourself with kind, sympathetic people. Beware, however, if there are cynics in your social circle. These psychologically challenged folks will take any opportunity to drag you down to their level. Keep your chin up.
A robust person likes you needs a physical outlet, or your aggression will start to build. It doesn't matter if you haven't exercised in years. Find a way to stretch your muscles. Walking, running or biking could put you in contact with other active folks who will keep your spirits high. Enjoy the outdoor fun that the season can bring.
A spirited debate makes you look at a brainy person with a romantic eye. Follow your instincts if the both of you are free to pursue a partnership. You should be careful, though, if there are relationship attachments on either side. There are plenty of better ways to court adventure. Affairs are bad news.
You like to be in the middle of things, but be careful what you wish for or it could end up at the centre of a scandal. It may be better to mind your own business. Contributing to gossipy conversations could come back to haunt you. Half of what you hear is probably false, anyway. Keep things in proper perspective. To justify the situation with “there’s no smoke without fire” is just foolish.
Guilt feelings prompt you to go out of your way for a person who is down on their luck. Take care that you don't let their sob stories ruin your good time. After all, you've worked hard to get where you are. If you want to share your prosperity, so be it. Just remember to give yourself credit for a job well done and only go on the run for someone who appreciates it.
It's hard to see the woods for the trees, especially where your personal life is concerned. Know that the troubles you face are leading you down a better path. You'll start to observe fair weather friends falling by the wayside. Take it in stride. You have more important ways to spend your time. Surround yourself with worthy people and give all others the bums rush.
Back up your words with actions. Your tendency to focus on a personal ambition may be taking a toll on a marriage or relationship. No job is worth a broken heart. Think back to when you first came into this person's life. Weren't you willing to do anything for them? Why has that changed? Take note of the answers as it will give a clue as to where you both go from here.
You're feeling a wee bit more restless than usual, and long to break out of your daily rut and hidebound routine. Go forth and do what pleases you before you blow your top. A person with your brain power and ingenuity tends to neglect their body and spirit. If you turn your attention to these areas, you'll feel less anxious, frustrated and threatened and ready to grasp the gauntlet of life more.
You long to serve and be of use to other, even if you're short changed in the end. Learn to act in your own interests for a change. If you continue to bend over backwards for the public, they'll take advantage of you. This has probably already happened to you several times. Are you ready to learn from your mistakes? If not you’ll constantly forsake your own personal vision and wonder why you’re always the bridesmaid, never the blushing bride - or groom. Take that how you like!