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A sensitive friend provides you with the comfort and understanding you so desperately need. Strained finances make it impossible for you to enjoy some of your favourite pursuits. Just because cash is short doesn't mean you have to stay home and brood, though. Make a list of ten things you can do for fun that cost very little. An active person like you might enjoy jogging as an inexpensive means to relieve stress.
Financial extravagance could create problems at home, so learn to spend within your means. If you feel as though you're not being compensated enough for your work, do something about it. Approach your boss for a raise, or look for a job that offers a higher salary. After doing a little research, you may discover you lack the adequate skills to get a better position. Attending a computer class may be necessary.
Making cavalier promises could result in an unpleasant backlash today. Be very careful about making generous offers, as someone might accept at the worst possible moment. Exaggerating your mastery of a particular subject is also a bad idea, as you may be asked to demonstrate your knowledge. Try to blend in with the background as much as possible. This is one time when you don't want to be singled out!
Your nurturing instincts may prompt you to lend money to a struggling friend. What you don't realise is that this person needs to become more self-reliant. Throwing money at the problem won't make it go away. You're much better off giving practical assistance, like teaching job interviewing skills or helping to write a solid resume. Nobody likes to feel financially indebted, especially to a loved one.
Despite having confidence in your abilities, you can't help but feel others don't recognise your true talents. Until you find a way to garner respect, it will be hard for you to work cheerfully. An authority figure may inquire about your less than enthusiastic attitude. Feel free to express your reservations. People may not be aware that a seemingly secure person like you needs to have your talent affirmed.
Although you have very strong principles, your subconscious may nudge you into shelving these beliefs. There's nothing wrong with wanting to see how the other half lives. Perhaps you're scared to admit that some of the values you've cherished for years no longer fit with your world view. Changing your lifestyle to suit your emerging sensibilities is a wise idea. The healthiest humans don't stagnate; they evolve.
Ending old ties can be very scary, especially when you've been friends for such a long time. However, there is no point in sustaining a relationship that no longer works for you. If an old pal asks why you've been avoiding them, gently explain you have different interests and want to go your own way. There's no easy way to deliver this message, but it's better to be honest than give false hopes.
You may be in over your head at work, which is a scary feeling. Instead of pretending you have everything under control, ask for a colleague's help. This person may be eager to lend their assistance, since you're usually so self-sufficient. At first, it may seem like a terrific humiliation to be in this position. Slowly, however, you'll see the benefit of joining forces with your colleagues. Ignore your ego's desire to control everything.
It's important for you to get your house in order before embarking on any wild schemes. You may be tempted to go on a trip or launch a program of study as a means to avoid the mess you've created. Resist this urge to escape, and turn your attention to your work and home environments. Get rid of any clutter that has been blocking your pathways, and make a set place for everything else.
You long to have fun, but it's hard to break through a friend's "business as usual" attitude. Instead of wasting your time trying to convert this person, focus on enjoying some solitary pleasures. This can be an intimidating prospect for you, but try anyway. Listening to your creative instincts will prove very rewarding. Pick up an abandoned craft project or return to a favourite hobby you enjoyed as a child.
You've got big dreams, but mundane realities are preventing you from realising them. Part of the problem is you give too much credence to cynics. It's important to stay away from these people when you're involved with a new and exciting project. Even your closest friends and colleagues can undermine your self-confidence. Keep in mind their warnings are more about their own disappointments than your capabilities.
You may overestimate your ability to handle certain physical strains. Don't push yourself as far as exercise goes, and watch what you eat and drink. Your system may be very delicate right now. You may be harbouring suspicions about a certain person who claims to be your friend. Before making any wild accusations, consider what it feels like when people jump to conclusions about you. Give others the benefit of the doubt today.