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Going on a shopping spree is a poor cure for a bruised ego; you need to face facts. Maybe you promised too much. Perhaps you expected something great and were disappointed. You may have even thought you were stronger than you actually are. Whatever the disappointment, don't let it jeopardise your financial future.
Avoid gossip like the plague, or you could become the target of someone's wrath. When you buy into half-truths and exaggerations, you open yourself to criticism. Channel your energy into making your resources stretch further. Putting a little money into savings now will enable you to afford a nice splurge later in the year.
Making yourself available to newcomers could prove useful in the future; be willing to schmooze! Some folks may think your behaviour is counterproductive, but actually, your performance is enhanced by strong relationships. If an authority complains, arrange to meet after hours for a long confab over dinner.
Changing your direction may not be practical now, but it doesn't stop you from dreaming. Instead of making one giant leap, break down your move into a series of small steps. Your first chore may be meeting financial obligations. Look into getting a lower interest rate, or set up a reasonable pay schedule.
You may have to postpone a fun trip in order to take care of an unforeseen problem. Try not to let disappointment get in the way of enjoying life's little pleasures. A friend's comforting words can put your problems into the proper perspective. Meantime, don't let a promise slip your mind. Someone special may be counting on you.
You may be drawn to a forceful person who says things you've often thought, but are too polite to utter. Working together may be another story entirely. You don't appreciate being ordered around. The important thing is to set firm boundaries early on with this character. Nobody should mistake you for a pushover.
Being too eager to please could prompt you to promise something you can't deliver. If you realise you've bitten off more than you can chew, confess now, before real problems ensue. Spend some time on your favourite creative pursuits. You need to vary your routine, or you'll burn out before you can cross the finish line.
Treating yourself with care and respect is the first step toward improving your public image. You can't possibly succeed when you berate yourself for past mistakes. Harbouring a negative self-image can actually affect the way others see you. Try to be a little more forgiving. Nobody is perfect, and that includes you!
You can't possibly cultivate romance if you keep denying your physical needs. There's nothing wrong with having a healthy sexual appetite. The trick is to communicate this side of your personality without scaring people away! Try wearing something subtle but sexy that shows off your best attributes. If you've got it, flaunt it!
It's hard to share your feelings with another person without hurting their feelings. There's simply no good way to express your anger over a betrayal. Chances are this character won't see the error of their ways. If that's the case, you may want to put some distance between you. Otherwise, the same problems could ensue.
You could betray your feelings when forced to deal with a persistent health problem. It's hard for you to feel good emotionally when things go wrong physically. Do something to improve your strength and increase your energy level. Take up a sport that seems like more play than work. Ask a friend to join you.
If your principles are offended by someone else's behaviour, stay silent for the short-term. It may develop that a cultural difference is the source of your frustration. This makes it easier to reconcile your differences. It's one thing to be intentionally rude, it's entirely another to misunderstand one another. Keep an open mind.