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It's easy to get emotional over financial disappointments, but try not to get carried away. Focus instead on blessings that can't be bought in a shop. Friends and family can provide the support you need, provided you're willing to ask for it. Getting assistance is not a sign of weakness; it's evidence of a healthy attitude.
You're more determined than ever to improve yourself, but get easily discouraged. If you don't see results immediately, hang in there. The mere fact that you have initiated changes should make you proud. Of course, you may make an occasional slip. When this happens, don't beat yourself up. Pace yourself like a long-distance runner.
It may not be possible to vent your anger, which only increases your frustration. Creative projects can provide a marvellous outlet for these pent-up feelings. Draw a picture of how you feel, or write a satirical poem about it. Keep your work in a secure place, though; you wouldn't want prying eyes to use it against you.
Airing your views in a public setting may win you more enemies than friends. Be silent, even if it makes you look like a hypocrite. Some days you are forced to choose between the lesser of two evils, and this is one of them. Making a scene could damage your reputation beyond repair. Besides, it probably won't do any good.
You may feel that you're entitled to more than you actually deserve; be honest with yourself. Perhaps you have to contribute more time to a project, or maybe you need more training. It could simply be a matter of behaviour. People will be more willing to give you a chance when you adopt an enthusiastic, helpful attitude.
While you probably know more about a given topic than anybody around you, it doesn't pay to brag. The next time you're called upon to demonstrate a skill or explain a concept, be humble. Making others feel inferior or stupid will only drive them away, when what you really need is an appreciative audience.
If you long for a satisfying personal life, you have to break free of old emotional ties. Everybody has experienced loss and disappointment with relationships. That doesn't mean your current friendships are headed for disaster. Acknowledge your past mistakes, and refuse to repeat them. Above all, don't act like a doormat.
Even the best relationships experience rocky patches, and yours is no exception. Today, you're apt to question why you ever teamed up with a particular friend. The best thing may be to distance yourself from this person, at least until you're feeling better. Otherwise, your petty criticisms could get on their nerves.
Things aren't moving forward as quickly as you want, and there's nothing you can do. Pass the time with hobbies that give you pleasure, like sports and handcrafts. Passive activities like watching television only encourage you to brood. Do something that requires a greater level of concentration. Time will pass much faster.
Someone close to your heart does everything in their power to get on your nerves. Maybe it's because they're jealous for your attention. Instead of devoting all your energy to chores, take some time to enjoy their company. Whether it's playing a game of cards or taking a drive through the country, do something that encourages conversation.
Problems at home make it difficult for you to see a way out of your predicament. One thing is for sure: you need to change your approach to loved ones. Stop teasing sensitive folks, and start encouraging downcast ones. If somebody needs stronger boundaries, provide them. Make up a series of rules, then promise to enforce them.
Be careful about what you say and to whom you say it to; you run the risk of shooting off your mouth. If someone has been continually provoking you, it's important to confront them in a calm, controlled manner. Any angry outbursts could be used against you at a later time. Besides, screaming and yelling won't get your point across.