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Some rules were made to be broken. At least that’s what you’ll be telling yourself today, when you are gripped by a growing need to break new ground and you aren’t ready to let anything or anyone block you. You have the will and a way is revealed to make changes to suit and please yourself.
Instead of getting angry and giving folk the sharp edge of your tongue, ask yourself why you feel the way you do? Maybe you’re not letting others in on your personal frustrations or anxieties, but a problem shared is a problem halved and who better to share it with than a loyal friend?
Don’t let someone get to you if they accuse you of not making sense. When it comes to communicational skills I would back you 100%. The trouble stems from the fact that they fail to grasp the fundamentals of a situation because they actually don’t know, and attack is their best form of defence.
Why give up on something just because someone louder or more forceful than you happens to disagree or object to your proposals? You could do much to change their attitude by putting forward your side and explaining your reasons instead of accepting defeat without putting up a fight.
Feeling angry with someone or nursing a grievance without doing anything positive about it means you are turning the anger that’s directed at them in on yourself. Talk, shout or pray if necessary, but get it out of your system and the emotional wound will heal without causing you any harm.
Sparks fly whenever you’re with someone who is supposed to be sharing your responsibilities but leave everything to you. You need to open up serious discussion between you and your partner, otherwise trust, respect and a whole number of other things will go flying out the window.
Worldly pressures weigh heavy on your shoulders. You think if only you could pack your bags and run away to a secret hiding place where no-one knows you would help, but that is called escapism or worse, self-deception. Best to confront your problems now or they will always be on your back.
You have seen the evidence with your own eyes and can see that new technology makes old practices redundant. The next step, if you’re wise, is to get trained and qualified, as up-to-date qualifications - or the lack of them - will have an enormous affect on your future financial security.
If there’s something or someone you really want but a part of you denies it, then it’s time to come to terms with whatever is holding you back. If you’re screwed-up because you don’t think you’re good enough or lack self-esteem, then believe me no-one is more deserving of happiness than you.
You’re living in a world of make-believe if you think you can take off and neglect or forget everyday commitments and start someplace else anew. Even though that’s what you’d like to do, bide your time, and if the feeling continues, change your current lifestyle so it suits you better.
Keep control of your emotions. Your ideas are good and your heart’s in the right place but don’t go to extremes to get support from folk who need convincing not coercing. If people don’t want to listen then that’s fine, just carry on doing your own sweet thing with or without them.
Relax and stop fretting; you don’t have to put on a good show and impress people all the time. Especially when dealing with your boss or someone in authority. Let VIPs see you for who you really are, as it will be informality that opens up doors that had been firmly locked to you until now.