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Beware of looking at life through rose tinted glasses, or you could fail to notice some very real thorns. A temperamental authority figure may have an axe to grind with you. Don't assume this person will act fairly in the interest of professionalism. You may have to defend yourself from some unfair charges. Fortunately, unseen support could come at the very last minute. You may not know it, but you have a lot of fans out there.
Don't fool yourself into thinking you're keeping a secret as several people know about the situation you're trying to hide. It's probably a good idea to go public with this information, just in the interests of preserving your reputation. Friends will give you the understanding and encouragement you need to go on. You're not the type who enjoys living in the shadows. If you have to admit something embarrassing, do it.
Going along with the crowd doesn't suit your style. You need to forge your own way, even at the risk of getting someone's disapproval. Beware of living beyond your means right now, as there may be some hefty expenses around the bend. Fortunately, you always manage to keep your sense of humour at times like these. Laughing in the face of disappointment will impress an authority figure. You could be given a promotion for your positive attitude.
Public embarrassment is a bitter pill to swallow. Whether you deserve this negative attention or not, you need to ask for help. This can be difficult for a natural leader for you. By reaching out to friends and family, you'll strengthen these relationships. Everybody is used to having you care for others in times of crisis. This is their chance to return the favour. Never fear; your reputation will soon be restored, providing you approach the problem with humility.
Don't place too much emphasis on education or official credentials as there is no substitute for experience and common sense. If you need to choose between someone who has many degrees versus somebody who has lots of recommendations, pick the latter. Onlookers may question your decision, but you'll be vindicated in the end. An electric attraction to a colleague may be too powerful to resist. Do your best to keep your relationship under wraps for the time being.
Don't get brainwashed by the media's idea of what is sexy. You've been blessed with brains as well as a unique brand of beauty. Underplaying your brain power is a bad way to attract romance. You can't be happy with a partner who doesn't appreciate your intellect. It may take some time to meet someone with whom you can connect, but when you do, the effect will be magic.
Looking to others to make you happy is a big mistake. You need to find your own bliss, whether it's from writing, painting, or serving others. Until you do, you'll be putting undue pressure on your romantic partner. A terrific job assignment helps you realise your creative talent is a sacred flame that needs to be nurtured. Don't hesitate to experiment with new techniques. You could hit upon a method which becomes an industry standard.
Help may not be forthcoming from a colleague, advisor, or counsellor. And while it's disappointing to encounter such an uncooperative attitude, you still need to soldier on. Cynicism is your worst enemy now. Take your cues from an upbeat child who refuses to take 'no' for an answer. The more positive you remain in the face of challenges, the more progress you will make. It feels great to beat the system, and doing it through relentless optimism is the best revenge of all.
You may have to deliver disappointing news to a lover or child. And while you hate to burst this person's bubble, it's better you present this information than a disinterested bystander. Don't shield the blow with a consolation prize. Your friend needs to experience this pain in order to move forward. An unexpected change to spend more time at home is like an answer to a prayer. Sometimes you catch a break just when you need it most.
You may not have the means necessary to make your home as beautiful or comfortable as you'd like. Try not to let that prevent you from entertaining friends and family. They care more about your company than eating off expensive dishes. Above all, don't get into debt just because your neighbours seem to have more than you, many of these people probably can't afford to maintain this standard of living. It's better to remain solvent.
A back handed compliment could throw you for a loop. Before you take this remark to heart, consider its source. There's a very good chance this person is wildly jealous of your accomplishments. That's often the case with characters who couch nasty remarks in sweet statements. What's even worse is that your critic doesn't even have the courage to be straightforward. Try exercising compassion towards this person, and take comfort in the fact you're doing well.
Don't feel embarrassed if you can't afford to make a donation to your favourite cause. You'll be more than able to make up for the loss in a few months' time. Meanwhile, put your time and energy towards projects which give your life meaning. Your creative talents may be especially appreciated, whether this means writing a grant for a charity or designing a poster for an animal shelter. Strapped for ideas? Ask the powers that be what they need to further their efforts.