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Distance yourself from people who aren't being helpful; side with those who are like minded and re-group. To get your life back on track you need to become stronger mentally. To do this, you need the support of upbeat people around you. If you've veered away from your main goals, it won't be difficult to get back on target. Get organised, plan ahead and don't waste time with people who keep disturbing and distracting you.
Low self esteem could be a symptom of your surroundings and not what is going on inside. If you're spending too much time in familiar settings and life lacks variety, a change of environment will make all the difference. You'll find your bad feelings decrease in severity to eventually disappear altogether. Confusion regarding a relationship or business matter will evaporate leaving you certain of the best things to do and when to do them.
Acknowledging a situation isn't brilliant isn't being demeaning or offensive to anyone; you're telling it like it is. If a group aren't getting on well together and aren't likely to in the future, why pretend all is fantastic? It's not! Those who deny the truth are the ones who continue to keep a tense state of affairs going when it would be better changed. Rather than repress your feelings, let others know your views and also make suggestions on how to make things better.
If distractions around you are making it difficult for you to concentrate, tune them out. If someone has the nerve to be rude to you, refuse to respond in a like fashion. It is entirely possible they're miserable and feel the need to take it out on other people. A gloomy workmate seems to think hurting others will make them feel better. If you adopt a concerned and compassionate attitude, they're going to feel embarrassed about their behaviour very soon.
Someone has a knack for making you feel inadequate; it's probably not their intention to make you feel that way. Control your responses and you might soon find their intent was actually to get your attention and to entertain you. If you're single, someone who fancies you has been trying to get your interest and they've gone about it in all the wrong way. Once you realise what they're up to, you might view them in an entirely different and more observant way.
The decision to make an unplanned break could stem from a colleague's careless comment. Suddenly you feel a need to get away from your usual environment, to clear your thoughts and cool your temper! It could be someone has misunderstood your desire to do things your way and they feel you're in some way mocking their efforts. Once the misunderstanding has been cleared, your relationship will take a turn for the better.
A friend or loved one's remarks make you feel they aren't seeing you as you truly are. Refuse to let their impressions colour your thinking. Look in the mirror and concentrate on the person you know yourself to be; you don't need others to tell you who they imagine you are especially when they've got it all wrong. If someone close singles you out to treat you unfairly or unkindly, confide in a caring friend or relative. Put an end to this situation today.
You may have to judge the potential of new ideas and decide for yourself whether or not to go along with them. Be aware not everyone will agree with your decisions and be prepared to explain your reasoning behind them. As it is, there are people who think just like you and it should be easy to stir up their interest regarding the steps you hope to take to make the future more interesting and exciting for everyone.
If you're wanting to improve your health or lose weight, cut out fast food and stick to a healthy diet. Eating plenty of fruit and vegetables will reduce all the toxins and chemicals you've recently consumed! In money, be sensible in the way you handle cash. It's not a good idea to take risks, even if others are trying to persuade you to do so. Other than for day to day expenses, keep your wallet firmly closed.
If you try at least once a day to do something to make you feel good, your current positive attitude will continue. Self sufficiency is something you excel at now and people are impressed with your confidence and aptitude. There's every reason to look forward to achieving a good deal; you have energy combined with a natural talent for organisation. Keep an eye out for someone who's struggling; they could really do with your help.
If you're not feeling very good about yourself these days, remind yourself of your talents and find a way to utilise these. Think of something you're good at and practice every day until you're the best. If you want more variety in life, try something you've never done before. Sign up on an art course, learn a musical instrument. Simple changes you make in your life today could make tomorrow seem so much more hopeful.
Keep busy and stop caring about other people more than you do yourself. You've always been sensitive to other people's moods and feelings but this can drain you emotionally and mentally. Especially if you're involved with someone who is depressed or mentally ill. It's not easy to block negative comments as you tend to get wrapped up in everyone else's problems and care about what they say. Today, the most important thing is to focus on your life, not theirs.