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Situations past and present converge causing confusion as you try to compare then with now. You are drawn like a magnet to a place or person that holds many memories but beware: having so much of your past history on show could reveal the weaknesses and put a current relationship to the test.
People can be so demanding and your time is not your own but it only takes a two lettered word to make your world easier to cope with, just say NO. You’re too soft by half making you an easy touch for someone trying to pull a fast one. Your loss is their gain so it’s time to put yourself first.
If it ain’t broke don’t fix it - in fact even if things aren’t working out, leave a wonky situation well alone as muddles have a way of working themselves out naturally. If someone comes to you with a relationship hassle, the least said soonest mended, or you’ll end up putting your foot in it.
Even if you are just looking for a bit of fun, go along with a friend’s crazy ideas and you’ll end up in expensive hot water. Some people have plans way beyond their pockets so teach them prudence otherwise they will be around to you with their begging bowl or pointing the finger of blame.
Not a day to confront a delicate matter that needs co-operation to work it out, as neither you or the other party concerned are in the mood to compromise. If someone refuses to harmonise and you can’t get a joint issue resolved, you may want to continue on your own even ’though it means a parting of the ways.
Don’t talk, don’t judge, just listen if someone wants a shoulder to cry on otherwise your words and actions will be misconstrued. You may doubt that you’re the right one to give the psychological support a person in need needs but for now you are all they have so be there for them.
You feel obliged to lend someone a helping hand as they have helped you and now you owe them. However you can’t help wondering if you are being manipulated and must take pains to prevent this kind of thing from happening again. In this instance you’ve made your bed and now you must lie on it.
When emotions start to get the better of you, you must count to ten or walk away but don’t stick around for others to witness your lack of control. Once you’ve calmed down, you must find a roundabout way to settle the matter or it will keep recurring time and time again to faze your feelings.
If unsure about suggestions that could affect your job or your general well-being, refuse to commit yourself until you’ve looked into it or slept on it. Genuine offers will stand the wait, but if anyone is able to force your hand then they are the ones who will benefit, not you.
Be it romance or money that’s bothering you, support is there for the taking but, regretfully, it’s not exactly what you had in mind. You don’t have to act on any offer or proposition that comes your way now especially if you suspect someone is taking unfair advantage of a sensitive situation.
You’re impelled to lash out and hurt someone as much as they’ve hurt you but the eye-for-an-eye approach won’t make life any easier. Once others have thought about what they’ve said, done or didn’t do, their guilt will be punishment enough so don’t go making a bad situation worse.
Instead of continuing with any plan or idea that is going pear-shaped, change your approach or do something different instead. A word of caution: dash in and instigate a new scheme and it will be out of the frying pan and into the fire. You must be thorough, circumspect and sensible right now.