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Someone is behaving childishly and this is starting to get you down. They don't understand what they are doing wrong. No amount of complaining or arguing will get them to realise how frustrating you are finding their company. Leave them alone for a while and channel your frustrated energy into a creative project.
Start reading between the lines if you sense someone isn't telling you it all. A friend may need a shoulder to lean on but they don't know how to ask or they don't want to draw attention to themselves. There's nothing will make you feel worse than not having been there for someone who needed you.
If you are attending an interview let your appearance reflect who you are inside. Dress the way you want to feel: cool, calm and collected and you will be amazed by the difference in the way people react to you. Be sure to emphasise your versatility and how you can easily work with a variety of people.
It's never easy to discuss emotions when you need people to understand their behaviour is making you miserable. If you're unsure about where to begin, come out with the first thing on your mind. Once you open discussions, words will come more easily and you will be surprised by all that is revealed.
One reason a romance seems so lacklustre is because it has no fire or passion. It isn't too late to improve this relationship. Pursue activities and interests you both enjoy. If you find your love life boring, let your partner know how you are feeling or start looking for someone who is more compatible.
You're spending a lot of your time worrying over nothing. This is a waste of mental energy. Try making some time for your social life. You need to relax more and this will help you feel more certain about where you are heading. Forget about what happened in the past. Learn from your mistakes and move on.
Your boss or a workmate will imply you aren't capable to manage a certain role or responsibility. You have the skills to make a success of this. Demand the respect you deserve and don't let anyone belittle you. Make it your mission to prove their accusations wrong.
If there is tension in the family, a little tenderness and a willingness to listen will make a lot of difference. Resentment in relationships will start to grow if you ignore anyone who is trying to talk to you. You may need to reassure those you love that they are important to you.
Career demands or family responsibilities are taking a toll on a new marriage or relationship. Ties of the past are interfering with the love you have found in the present. It isn't easy to work out the best way to cope with this all. You might wish you could turn your back on old commitments but it's just not that simple.
Someone seems to be deliberately misunderstanding everything you say. They might be finding this amusing but you don't. If you sense someone is deceiving you, teasing you or just trying to annoy you, walk away. You don't have to put up with this kind of nonsense today.
People want to discuss the changes you are about to make. You have already made your mind up. You value the advice of your friends and family but you can't let them dictate to you or influence your choices. You might admit to being nervous about the future but this is a risk you have to take.
A close friend's selfish demands are starting to get you down. This will eventually breed resentment and hostility. You can't keep putting into a relationship you are getting nothing out of. Don't be afraid to let your feelings be known and don't feel guilty if you want to say no'. If you can't say it ask a relative to do it for you.