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If only people would leave you alone, you would do much better without their interference. No matter how well-intentioned, you will just prefer to make up your own mind. An older colleague or neighbour is full of advice and although they are trying to be helpful, what they think you need is very different to what you actually need.
You will want to insist on making your own decisions when it comes to all and anything financial. A friend or relative thinks they know best, but they are wrong if it's your money they are trying to spend. Let them splash out on having fun if that's what they want but you won't be joining them.
You know what you need and what you intend to do to bring improvements into your life. You have the inner strength and wisdom to bring about your goals. Setting clear boundaries in relationships will be beneficial to both sides when each of you should be growing and thriving.
Something you are having to deal with alone is getting you down. You need to accept that it will help to lean on someone as you go through this. Stop putting yourself down and learn to love yourself again. You do such a lot for others; it's time to do the same for you. Accept any help that is offered.
It would be wonderful to give in to a sudden impulse to get away from it all. The trouble is, these kinds of ideas need careful planning and you just can't turn your back on work and family commitments. People are relying on you and for that reason, you will sit on any urge to travel.
Keep fighting for what you believe in and you will succeed. It can feel deflating and disappointing to have to deal with one difficulty after another. You're almost ready to give up but don't lose your inner fire. Keep going and you will overcome obstacles. Success will feel exhilarating.
Your hopes for a dream job or relationship are shattered. This sense of loss makes you want to hide away from the world. Allow your emotions outlet. Cry, grieve, feel hurt, be angry. This is part of the healing process. Brighter says do lie ahead for you but you may have to walk through a little rain to reach them.
You may have to hit rock bottom before you reflect on what needs to be changed, pick yourself up and start again. You will blossom once again. It is time to release anything that is keeping you tied to the past. Clear out the negativity and trust you have it within you to create a new life for yourself.
Like a snake sheds its skin; you need to let go of things in order to clear the way for something new. Cut ties with anything that no longer serves you whether this is a relationship, an old way of thinking or outworn daily habits. You will not realise how this has been draining you until you allow transformation to happen.
Be kind to others and, just as importantly, be kind to yourself. Be mindful of the words you use in conversations. Are you being too critical of other people's efforts? Do you doubt your own abilities and do you keep putting yourself down? If so, it is time to change your inner dialogue. Believe in yourself.
You're ready to share your ideas and plans with the world. This could be an idea, a project or a change of lifestyle. It can be scary to make such a big change but exciting too. Stay true to yourself. Don't let other people influence you with their views and opinions and don't compare yourself with others. For this to be successful, you need to be you.
An older relative will decide to go along with plans they had recently objected to. Don't say anything that might make them change their mind again. Instead, get on with this while they are in such a cooperative mood. Talk over worries that have been keeping you awake at night. Someone will have advice that should help ease your mind.